As we approach Mother’s Day – a time to honor the incredible women who have shaped us – we reflect on the invaluable lessons we’ve learned from the maternal figures in our lives. At Concentus Wealth Advisors, we cherish the opportunity to pay tribute to the women who have guided us through life by sharing their wisdom. These lessons have greatly influenced our approach to creating fulfilling and purpose-driven lives.
In the spirit of celebration and gratitude, we’ve gathered reflections from our team members, each sharing the profound impact their mothers have had on shaping their values, resilience, and capacity for love. From selfless sacrifice to unwavering support, these stories serve as testaments to the enduring influence of maternal love and wisdom.
Erik Strid
“By the time she turned 30, my mother had 5 children under the age of 6. I know this seems pretty crazy in comparison to today’s society, in which so many people wait longer to have children and have fewer kids, but she indeed had 5 of us in such rapid succession. The most important value I learned from watching my mom manage this herd of little ones is the true meaning of selfless love … because raising a family of that size really requires you to suspend your own personal agenda and always make everything about the well-being of your kids. Since there were so many of us, someone always had a problem that needed solving, or was up all night sick, or needed a hug and a little extra attention. My mom was always ready to do whatever was needed, without a moment’s concern for herself. For her, it was always all about us – her joy and satisfaction were always simply predicated on the well-being and happiness of her 5 kids. Thank you, Mom!”
Andrew Brewster
“At an early age, I learned many things from my mom, but there are two in particular that have embedded themselves in my life all the way to fatherhood. The first is to try and do what is right no matter what life brings, and the second is to never quit on something that you have started. Thank you, Mom, for teaching me these two oftentimes underappreciated values that have helped me persevere in life.”
Patrick Johnson
“Throughout my life, my mother has always shown me the true definition of unconditional love. No matter where I am or what I am doing, I know I can always count on my mom to be there for me.”
Denise Carmichael
“My mom influenced my life by the way she lived and loved! She was married to my dad for 54 years when she passed and had special relationships with all her children and grandchildren. My mom was the biggest can-do person I ever met. She rarely shied away from trying something new and excelling at it. She had many gifts and talents, which included entertaining and keeping in touch with family and friends. She had friends of all ages and connected on a deep and personal level with each of them. She exuded warmth and positivity on most days. Mom had many talents, including cooking, baking, sewing, upholstering, painting, wallpapering, quilting, and gardening. She was Martha Stewart with a nursing degree and helped diagnose many illnesses within our family and friends. Mom taught me the importance of relationships and putting love out into the world!”
Paul Strid
“Some of the most valuable lessons I learned from my mom, I didn’t realize I learned until I was an adult. I find myself reflecting on things she taught me in childhood that have made me a better person and, particularly, a better parent. As a parent, I have leaned on so many things I experienced as a child. Her unwavering love, compassion, and patience are traits that I try to emulate now. I can remember her doing anything and everything needed to make sure all of us had what we needed, whether that was help on a homework assignment, organizing the school auction, or just providing a hug or a word of encouragement when it was needed the most. I am eternally thankful for having such an amazing mom, and now I have the joy of watching my kids.”
Celebrating the Mothers We Love
We extend our deepest gratitude to the remarkable women who have shaped our lives with their boundless love and wisdom.
As we celebrate this special day, may we carry forward the invaluable lessons learned from our mothers, embodying their strength, resilience, and unwavering love in all that we do. To all the mothers, grandmothers, and maternal figures who have selflessly nurtured and guided us, we thank you and wish you a Happy Mother’s Day.
About VALUABLES
Many financial advisors focus on communicating with clients to provide complex analysis of the investment markets and economies. However, we have learned that most clients are not particularly interested in this complex analysis. Most clients hire an advisor for their knowledge of the markets, not for their ability to explain that knowledge. Most want to know what time it is, not how to build a watch.
Experience has taught us that wealthy families care most about using their wealth as a means to a desirable end, which is to achieve a more satisfying, fulfilled and impactful life, and to fulfill their most important Life Values.
VALUABLES is a periodic article series focused on the concepts, systems, and habits which we have observed among families who have been successful in this quest to use their wealth as a tool to live a life of significance. The most successful families share a set of habits, systems, and insights which enable them to use their wealth as a tool to fulfill their Values and what is most important to them.
We named this article series VALUABLES, because it provides an exploration of those habits, systems, and insights. We hope it will help you to consider your assets and possessions which are most valuable to you, and how you can use your financial wealth to enhance and cultivate your true “Valuables”.
Mom’s are very special Ladies. I will always remember what my Mom did for me throughout my life it was all very positive. I miss her every day
She can’t be replaced but my wife is up there for Mom I’m of the year.
HAPPY MOTHERS DAY TO ALL THE GREAT LADIES IN OUR LIFE